Update

I've had requests for an update to the dating situation so here goes;

The Date has disappeared. I'm not exactly sure where, why or, lets face it, when. I vaguely recall some drunken, suggestive texts but since I received them at some point between going to bed and getting up I think I can be forgiven for not remembering the details. Or even my replies. I'm pretty sure they were at least scathing and probably very annoyed but come on! I was trying to sleep! Anyway he's promptly disappeared into the wide blue yonder. Or possibly the blue lagoon.

Cookie/Mistaken Identity Guy was a part of my life for a grand total of 1 date n 3 weeks. for 2 weeks of which I was on holiday and therefore didn't text him. I had issues with his bossiness and attempts at superiority. I say attempts because they failed. Apparently age does not bring forth wisdom. So he's gone. Though I must say it was a very polite break up. He said if I ever wanted to go to the cinema or something we could, no strings attached. I'm thinking not. Especially as I saw him in the pizza place while I was out with 2 of my old schoolmates on Saturday night. He proceeded to mostly ignore me, flirt with my mate and then send me a text after he left telling me to go stay at his. The answer was a resounding NO.

Speaking of the pizza place i must confess to a major crush on a guy who's come to be known to all my friends as Pizza Guy. But seeing as he's only ever seen me very drunk and slightly disorderly every few weeks after a night on the town I don't foresee much happening in that department.

The Flirt however is most definitely still around and became positively romantic whilst I was texting him from Paris (more info on Paris coming soon :D) I'm talking about him randomly saying he loved me! Though I'm taking that with a pinch of salt because he changes his mind more than a woman trying to decide what to wear.
My skepticism is perhaps well earned because since meeting him and going for a drive one night last week (minus parking thank you very much) his attention has once again waned. I'm beginning to suspect a condition like lycanthropy but instead of turning into a wolf once a month he turns into a romantic. I think I need help. Should I put up with this guy or get over it?

Unfortunately matters of the heart are not helped by the questions of the head.

On a lighter note I've possibly been rather too flirty on Saturday night with another older guy. RAF Guy is nice but I think that my habit of dancing outrageously and flirtily due to my adoration of dancing and having a good time along with the consumption of copious amounts of straight vodka (I swear I should be Russian) has given him the wrong idea. Very little ever happens with guys I dance with.

I am not a slapper honest :(

Dating

So I know this wasn't supposed to be a dating blog but I have to talk about this- I'm suddenly popular with men!

My relationship history before a few weeks ago was tragic. I'd had boyfriends in school and the occasional drunken snog since but that's been pretty much it, apart from a long-term flirtation with a guy I've known since we were kids that's just going nowhere.

But now I actually have choices.

Remember The Date? Well he's one of the choices. We've actually been on another date since then. It started out as a coffee but we ended up at the cinema again. I think he just really wanted to see Twilight Saga: Eclipse to be honest but so did I so it worked out well. plus he paid. Anyway he now wants me to stay over at his but "nothing has to happen". Hmmm... the problem is The Flirt knows him and he's told me some kinda bad stuff about. I don't know whether he's telling the truth or if he's just jealous.

The other choice is a guy I met on Saturday when i was out round town for my sister-in-law's 21st. He asked for my number when I was buying a pizza whilst trashed. He texted me the very next day and we've been talking ever since. He seems kinda nice and he's invited me out for a meal on Thursday night. We've actually talked about quite a lot, not just randomly chatted. We've discussed jobs, pets, coffee shops, cookies... lol. We agreed that Millies Cookies are delicious. So yeah we seem to have stuff in common and we have a laugh.

There's just 2 flies in the ointment
1. He's 29 and I'm 20 (minor difference I know but it still feels weird)
and 2. He said I looked really sexy on Saturday night. In my white dress.

I was wearing a black top and a pale pink skirt with black cats on on Saturday.

Yeah, I'm a little worried now. But I guess I'll just have to see what happens on Thursday. Assuming he still wants to meet up.